The Perfect Submissive: Kink from Kay Jaybee- Perfect Submissive Style

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Kink from Kay Jaybee- Perfect Submissive Style

Thanks for inviting me to crash your site today for the first of three blogs about my very first erotica series, The Perfect Submissive Trilogy!!

I have been writing erotica for nine years now, and over that time I have built up something of a reputation for penning tales of the S&M and BDSM persuasion. Never has this reputation been more deserved than with Book One of the trilogy The Perfect Submissive, which I have to confess, definitely falls into the heavier side of erotica. In other words, it is pretty full on!

BlurbHidden behind the Fables Hotels respectable facade, five specially adapted rooms wait; ready to cater for the kinky requirements of its guests.

When Mrs Peters, the mistress of the hotels exclusive entertainment facility, meets the new booking clerk, Jess Sanders, she instantly recognises the young woman’s potential as a deliciously meek addition to her specialist staff. All it will take is a little education.

Under the tutelage of the dominatrix, Miss Sarah, Jess learns to cope with her unexpected training schedule, the increasingly erotic chill she experiences each time she survives a new level of correction, and a truly sexy exercise routine.

 Temporarily distracted from her intimidating rule over Fable’s top floor by  an enigmatic artist, Mrs Peters begins to plan how she can secure his obedient assistance, in grooming Jess into the perfect submissive…

Making a living out of writing sex scenes is great fun whichever way you look at it. For me however, it is the kinkier scenes that are the most interesting and attractive to both read and create.  To be able to invent interesting and unusual- yet believable (if somewhat muscle stretching), ways to provide pleasure is a challenge I really enjoy. Taking everyday objects and turning them into instruments of eroticism- through either direct pleasure, or through pleasure via desired pain, is a wonderful way to spend my days! For example, why just use a paintbrush to paint with?

In the following extract, Miss Jess Sanders has been working at the Fables for a few days now, and has been introduced to the Hotels pseudo school room. We join the action were the poor girl has been tied to an art table for what seems like hours, and now, at last, physical relief has arrived…

‘Master Philips, this is Miss Jess Sanders, the new administration clerk, and soon, well … let’s just say, I have high hopes for this young lady.’

Jess’s brain galloped off at a number of conflicting tangents as Lee nodded in evident understanding. An understanding Jess certainly did not share. What high hopes?

‘While you were lying here enjoying yourself, Miss Sanders, Master Philips here, has proffered me a great service.’

Jess said nothing, her eyes trained on the white tabletop before her, not wanting to see the predatory look of either of the people who towered over her. She could feel the sexual tension rising in the stale air of the room, and her body tingled.

Daring another glance at the young man, Jess took in the short dark hair, the slim body, the midnight blue eyes, and the unmistakable bulge of a hard cock beneath his suit trousers, which made her pussy give an involuntary spasm against the brush.

‘As you can see, Master Philip, Miss Sanders has been corked with one of the heftier classrooms paintbrushes. Just a little something to keep that untutored body amused in my absence.’

Jess closed her eyes as she heard Mrs Peters talking about her as if she was a mere thing, a toy to be played with. The idea appalled her, and yet, somehow the thought that they could do whatever they liked to her, sent another shot of desire through her abused frame, confusing her further.

Lee said nothing, but watched as Mrs Peters’ hand went towards the bristles that extruded from the girl’s cunt. Jess groaned as it was abruptly pulled out, leaving her pussy emptier than ever.

Sardonically observing Lee’s aroused state, the manageress asked him, ‘Would you like your dick to replace the brush handle for Miss Sanders? I’m sure that right now she is feeling particularly in need of filling, and I know you have a cock worthy of the job.’

Without raising his head, Lee replied, ‘Thank you Mrs Peters, I would.’

‘Then assist me.’

Swiftly Jess’s bindings were untied. It felt strange to be free, and the clerk’s shoulders cracked as she moved, flexing her arms and legs to get her blood circulating again. Jess wasn’t allowed her freedom for long however, as Mrs Peters yanked her arms sharply behind her back, re-tying her wrists, and shoving her into the larger and more comfortable teacher’s chair, her butt on the very edge of the seat, her legs spread.

‘As you are aware, Master Philips, I consider patience one of life’s greatest virtues, a lesson I think, by the look of desperation that is shining so blatantly in Miss Sanders’ eyes, it is high time she learnt.’

‘Yes Mrs Peters.’ Lee deflated slightly as he realised he would have to wait a little longer for his reward, but felt better when Laura passed him the paintbrush, knowing precisely what he was supposed to do with it.

Jess, her eyes wide, her throat drier than ever, watched as Lee ran the brush’s soft bristles between his fingers. Kneeling before Jess, he placed the tip of the paintbrush on the very end of her right nipple. Gasping with shock at the sensitivity of the touch, Jess began to shiver against the sweeping strokes Lee focused on her breast.

‘I must congratulate you, Master Philips.’ Mrs Peters spoke with approval. ‘You have an excellent technique there, arousing, and stimulating, without being quite enough to make your subject come.’

Jess groaned. Why wouldn’t they let her come? As the deliciously torturous brush moved onto her left tit, tears of desire and frustration gathered at the corner of her eyes. She knew she was minutes away from begging. Begging to be fucked, begging to be allowed to come; begging for a warm mouth to come to her pussy, her chest, her mouth.

Her quivers turned to shakes as her stomach knotted with the build up of a fast approaching climax.

A gesture from Laura and Lee dropped the brush, causing tears of desperation to course down Jess’s cheeks. ‘Now, Miss Sanders, you have to learn to pace yourself. This is as much for our enjoyment as yours, and we are not ready to let you come yet.’

Blinking in disbelief at her superior’s words, Jess felt the tears dry against her face, as once again the brush was employed by Lee, this time along her tethered arms, her unsteady legs and her taut stomach. Concentrating hard on not pleading for more direct attention, Jess tried to ignore the growing ache between her legs, and the increasingly obvious presence of Lee’s erection.

Jess’s persistent moans turned to helpless whimpers as Mrs Peters finally broke the tension, ‘You may remove your clothes, Lee.’

The young man moved with uncaring speed and Jess gulped as she saw the neatly circumcised penis that was pointing at her hungrily, slide into the waiting rubber.

Ordered to sit up straight, Jess obeyed as the barman gratefully sank his length into Jess’s slick snatch. Their mutual sighs of relief made Mrs Peters issue a sharp sneering laugh, ‘So young and so desperate.’

Picking up the brush, the manageress began to stroke the cream bristles back over Jess’s tormented nipples, as Lee heaved against her, slapping his backside and balls against her in his urgency to come.

Jess screamed out her climax, her body rocking in shocked pent up pleasure.

As Jess slumped against the barman, Mrs Peters dropped the brush to the floor. ‘You see, Miss Sanders, some things are so much better if they are promised, but withheld for a while. If you are made to wait, you appreciate things all the more. Don’t you think?’

‘Yes, Mrs Peters.’ Jess spoke automatically through breathless lips. There really wasn’t anything else she could say…


If you fancy delving in to the world of Mrs Peters and discovering how Jess copes with her submissive education, The Perfect Submissive is available in paperback, and as an eBook from all good retailers, including-


Thanks again for letting me visit today. If you come back to Erzabet’s fabulous site on Thursday, you’ll be able to find out about the second book in The Perfect Submissive Trilogy- The Retreat! See you then!!

Happy Reading,


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Kay Jaybee wrote the novels The RetreatPart 2 of The Perfect Submissive Trilogy, (Xcite, 2013), Making Him Wait, (Sweetmeats Press, 2012), The Voyeur (Xcite, 2012), The Perfect Submissive (Xcite 2012), as well as the novellas, Not Her Type: Erotic Adventures With A Delivery Man (2nd ed. 1001 NightsPress, 2013), Digging Deep (Xcite, 2013), A Sticky Situation, (Xcite, 2012), and The Circus, (Sweetmeats Press). She has also written the anthologies The Collector (Austin & Macauley, 2012 & 2008), The Best of Kay Jaybee (Xcite, 2012), Tied to the Kitchen Sink, Equipment, (All Romance, 2012), Yes Ma’am (Xcite e-books, 2011), Quick Kink One and Quick Kink Two (Xcite e-books, 2010). Kay has had over 70 short stories published by Cleis Press, Black Lace, Mammoth, Xcite, Penguin, Seal, and Sweetmeats Press.

Kay is currently writing the final instalment of The Perfect Submissive Trilogy- Knowing Her Place.

Details of Kay’s work, past, present and future can be found at

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Beltane Witch: A Visit With Siobhan Muir




Magic, mayhem, and motherhood… a witch’s work is never done, but Sabrina draws the line at the Fae.

After almost two decades as a practicing witch in Cloudburst, Colorado, Sabrina Foxglove is done with men, magic, and the fertility rituals of High Beltane. She’s dealt with all three before and ended up with a young daughter and no partner. Twice. She’s looking forward to a magic-free May Day, with nothing more exciting than making brownies for a kindergarten class and decorating a May Pole. She definitely doesn’t have time for a handsome, Fae-touched man.

After almost two centuries as the human chamberlain to the Fae’s Summer Court, Darius Winterbourne is a man accustomed to getting his way. So when the Summer Queen tasks him with finding a witch to perform the annual rituals and strengthen the ancient warding magicks, he figures it should be easy. He doesn’t expect Sabrina’s hardheaded refusal, her untrained abilities, or his attraction to her. With less than a week to Beltane, he must gain Sabrina’s trust before he loses his home, his position…and his heart.


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1. How did you get started writing erotica?
I got started when my husband told me romance was bunk and all the guys had baseball bats for dicks. I looked at him and said, “Let me try to write one you’d read.” He let me and now he loves the romance I write. As for the erotic side of it, he wouldn’t be interested in sweet romance. 😉
2. It is so rare to find an author that writes pagan erotic stories. Tell me a little about what stirs your blood.
Normally I steer clear of witches because I don’t feel like I have enough knowledge to write them accurately (the magic and rituals and all). But this story came out of a dream, complete with characters, motivations, conflicts, and holiday. The muse wouldn’t let me NOT write it down. What really stirs my blood about the pagan celebrations is the connection to the divine. How people can become divine in those moments of devotion and revelation. It’s something I strive for in my daily life because that connection is within all of us.
3. Tell me a little about your book, The Beltane Witch.
The Beltane Witch follows Sabrina Foxglove, a single mom and pagan practitioner who’s been asked to perform the High Beltane rituals to secure the magical energy in Cloudburst. The problem is she doesn’t have time for magic, men, or the Fae, even if the Summer Queen is ordering her to do it. Darius Winterbourne, the Chancellor of the Summer Court has been sent to acquire a witch to perform the rituals and it’s always been easy for him in the past. But Sabrina doesn’t want the honor and kicks him out on his ear. With the Queen breathing down his neck and Sabrina’s stubbornness meeting him head on, Darius is going to have to come up with something quick or he might lose everything. Including his heart.
4. What was the sexiest scene you ever wrote?
The sexiest scene I’ve ever written was in the end of The Beltane Witch when they danced for Beltane. It was wild, erotic, primal and hot. The words and actions flowed straight out of me and it was the first time writing a love scene when I had to stop and fan myself (or tackle my husband) because it affected me as much as the characters.
5. What three things are on your writing desk right now.
Three Monster High dolls – Jinafire Long (dragon), Skelita Calaveras (really cool skeleton), and Rochelle Goyle (gargolye); a microscope, and my Kindle Fire.
6. If I were your most favorite cookie in the world, what would I be?
Lemon Squares
7. What is your most favorite holiday and why?
Thanksgiving – no presents to keep track of or wrapping paper to clean up, but great food and great company, plus screaming at sports on TV. 😀
8. Plotter or pantster?
An odd hybrid of both – I write a general outline with any details I want to remember, then let the muse go and see where the story takes me.
9. What advice do you have for writers when they undertake their first novel length piece?
Don’t worry about the length, but keep the pacing up the whole story long. You have to make it exciting even if the story is more than three chapters. Develop your characters and tie up all the lose ends. Knowing what the goals, motivations, and conflicts (both internal and external) are really help make a longer story interesting.
10. What is next on the writing horizon? Will there be more witchy books to compliment Beltane Witch? (I hope so!)
In terms of what you can read next, there is a short story coming out in a Christmas anthology entitled Happy Holidays from the Crescent Moon Lodge. My story is Christmas ICE Magic and features an Ice Demon. After that is a Menage a SEALs, a military romantic suspense, which should be out in November. The third Cloudburst Colorado tale is coming in 2014 and you’ll see Sabrina Foxglove and Darius Winterbourne briefly in it, as well as learn what’s going on with Sabrina’s friend Moira and her hero, Aiden. There will be magic involved and a really bad guy coming to haunt Moira. Exciting stuff. 🙂
Thanks for being on the blog today! It was wonderful to have you and I can’t wait to read more of the Cloudburst series!

Weekend at Wilderhope Manor: Lucy Felthouse



When Stephanie and Jenny go to a Murder Mystery Halloween weekend at Wilderhope Manor, they’re expecting fun and games. But following creaky floorboards, spooky noises and an alarming encounter in the Manor’s grounds, the girls begin to wonder if there’s more to Wilderhope Manor than meets the eye. As they find frequent comfort in one another’s arms – and their bed – will the girls discover what’s causing the bumps in the night, or will they run scared?

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This story is perfect for the autumn season. Pumpkins, haunted houses and sexy girls that go bump in the night are just what the doctor ordered. When Steph and Jenny go on a much needed murder mystery vacation they are set to have some sexy moments and a great time with the guests. Tripping around the property, they have some very scandalous f/f moments (yay) and encounter a ghost or two to set the mood. I enjoyed this hot little number. Perfect for an afternoon read, munching on a pumpkin muffin and dreaming of sexy costume parties.

Love the cover art on this one!


Lovers Unmasked: A Brazen Anthology



Mystery and intrigue surround Halloween night as friends surrender to long-hidden desires, lovers relinquish control, and the heat of passion threatens to consume them all…

Danielle has a plan—use the company Halloween party to seduce the sexy mail guy who works a few floors up who she’s been meeting for coffee for the past few months. The only problem? He’s not who she thinks he is, and he has seduction plans of his own.

Kindergarten teachers aren’t known for breaking the rules, but Steph is ready to go undercover—and get under the covers—to work her magic on her best friend, Landon. Sexy costume necessary, multiple orgasms crucial, real identity optional.

When Stacy discovers her sex-on-a-stick ex at her Hollywood Halloween blow-out, she decides to show the cocky homicide detective exactly what he’s been missing. But she’s not the only one plotting revenge, and Ian’s the only one who can save her.

Lieutenant Derek Tyler and Ginger Peet have overcome every seemingly impossible hurdle on the path to happiness, but when they each receive life-changing news on the same day, will their hard-won trust stand up to the test? Or will their attempts to shield one another drive them apart?

Enjoy your tricks and treats in this sexy anthology featuring bestselling authors Katee Robert, Cari Quinn, Samanthe Beck, and Tessa Bailey.

Seducing Mr. Right by Katee Robert
Danielle has a plan—use the company Halloween party to seduce the sexy mail guy who works a few floors up who she’s been meeting for coffee for the past few months. The only problem? He’s not who she thinks he is, and he has seduction plans of his own.

Tempted by His Best Friend by Cari Quinn
Kindergarten teachers aren’t known for breaking the rules, but Steph is ready to go undercover—and get under the covers—to work her magic on her best friend, Landon. Sexy costume necessary, multiple orgasms crucial, real identity optional.

Wicked Games by Samanthe Beck
When Stacy discovers her sex-on-a-stick ex at her Hollywood Halloween blow-out, she decides to show the cocky homicide detective exactly what he’s been missing. But she’s not the only one plotting revenge, and Ian’s the only one who can save her.

Protecting What’s Theirs by Tessa Bailey
Lieutenant Derek Tyler and Ginger Peet have overcome every seemingly impossible hurdle on the path to happiness, but when they each receive life-changing news on the same day, will their hard-won trust stand up to the test? Or will their attempts to shield one another drive them apart?





This anthology was smokin hot and had enough tricks and treats to make even the choosiest romance addict smile. All of the stories were good, but I connected with three out of the four.  The first story “Seducing Mr. Right” was grab some ice cubes and crunch hot.  I love stories where you have a little subterfuge going on and this one was sexy billionaire in disguise.  The second story was just as awesome. Hot foxy costumes (literally) cause some trouble when a girl decides to seduce her best friend at a Halloween party. “Tempted by His Best Friend” by Cari Quinn made me want to go out a buy a fox tail and ears for this Halloween!  The third story was a little distracting and I didn’t finish it. The forth one, “Protecting What’s Theirs” was a great cop drama with some D/s thrown in for good measure. It left me all tingly and wanting much, much more…

All and all, I enjoyed the anthology, but felt the third story was going around in circles a little too much and I stopped reading it. Brazen Halloween stories are smokin hot and I hope you do another one very, very soon.




Submission Call

Ylva Publishing

International Women DayYlva Publishing wants to spread the love a bit. How? Well, we are seeking contemporary romance stories for an anthology we’d like to publish in January 2014. An anthology full of sinfully sweet romance and amazingly erotic fun.

So, here’s what we’re looking for:

We’re looking for lesbian fiction. All submissions should be either contemporary romance or erotica.

We accept only short stories that haven’t been previously published.

Word count:
We are looking for stories between 4,000 and 12,000 words in length.

Writers whose stories are selected for the anthology will receive a one-time payment of $40 (via PayPal) plus a free e-book of the anthology in each format (epub, mobi, pdf).

The deadline is set for October 15, 2013.

Electronic submissions only. Please send your story as an e-mail attachment (.doc, .docx, or .rtf) to Put “Spread the love” in the subject line…

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Sexy Distraction and a $200 Amazon Gift Card Giveaway!

Sexy giveaway!!



I’m at Silken Sheets today talking about the 2nd year anniversary of our group blog. There’s a steamy pic (yes!) and a chance at winning at $200 gift card.



Also–the super sexy romantic suspense Her Russian Protector series boxed set containing the first three books in the series is on sale for 99 Cents through 9/22/13!You can grab a copy at Amazon, B&N, Kobo and Smashwords.

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The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys Blog Tour



Feeling adventurous? In this witty and well-informed guide, bestselling author and chief sex education pundit Violet Blue explains how to choose and use sex toys to play and explore together—and have mind-blowing sex. Also featuring new content by the renowned Dr. Charlie Glickman, The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys helps couples redefine alone time. Violet offers tips on creative usage and ideas for introducing sex toys to a relationship for sex toy novices and practiced enthusiasts alike.

Some of the tips and tricks you’ll learn:
  •       How to see through exaggerated marketing claims of some manufacturers
  •       Fun and creative ways to incorporate new technology into your fantasies
  •       Information on smart shopping and recommended resources
  •       Vital communication skills, especially for couples
The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys
By Violet Blue
Foreword by Charlie Glickman PhD
$14.95, Trade Paper
168 pages, 5½” x 8″
ISBN:  978-1-57344-972-4 
Publishing August 13, 2013



Violet’s Bio:

Violet Blue (, @violetblue) is the best-selling author of numerous sex-instruction books, including The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus and The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio. She also writes about erotica, pornography, and sexual pleasure and health for magazines such as O: The Oprah Magazine, Newsweek, Cosmopolitan, Esquire, Glamour, Maxim, Marie Claire, Men’s Health, Penthouse, Redbook, and more. She lives in San Francisco.

Violet’s website:
Our twitter: @CleisPress
Violet’s twitter: @VioletBlue


The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys

By Violet Blue



Of all the sex machines widely available to consumers, the Sybian ( is the most popular and widely recognized of them all, perhaps due to its starring role in a significant number of porn films and its use on a variety of adult websites. It’s also an extremely popular machine in the swinging lifestyle (or subculture) and regularly appears as a guest of honor at sex parties.

Looking like the top half of a mechanical bull, the Sybian is shaped like a wide motorcycle seat with a flat base so that the user rides it, or sits astride the machine. It’s a fairly large and heavy machine, at 13’x10’x10′ and 22 pounds, and the rider needn’t worry about it actually moving while in use. It’s also (allegedly) rated to withstand 1,000 pounds. The Sybian is covered in padded black Naugahyde, with the attachments in beige “flesh” tone. The area that does all the work is situated right at the seat’s apex; where the rider’s genitals make contact, a vibrating area stimulates a number of optional attachments. There’s no in-and-out thrusting by this machine, but instead it gives intense, variable-speed vibrations or rotating action to attachments that range from a “flat” dildo to dildos of different sizes, and even a double penetration attachment. The user can sit in place, “ride” the machine, or wiggle around all he or she likes.

The Sybian runs on standard U.S. 120v current and also has a 240v version for worldwide use; it simply plugs into the wall socket and you’re ready to go. A cable extends from the machine, connecting a very basic control box that controls vibration intensity and rotation. It’s a quite loud machine and not recommended if you have concerns about noise, though one solution is to place the machine on a padded surface like a bed or cushion to absorb the loud motor sounds.

The Sybian’s attachments are made of rubber—sadly, they’re not made of hygienic silicone, so extra steps will need to be taken to ensure cleanliness. Rubber can’t be sterilized, so it’s not recommended that you share this machine unless you’ve cleaned the machine and toys with bacteria-killing agents. The attachments can withstand a run through the dishwasher on the top rack for a full cycle, though, unlike silicone, they can’t be boiled. To clean between uses, wash with a fragrance-free antibacterial soap like Hibiclens or a 1:10 bleach and water solution, followed by detergent (dish soap) and a hot water rinse. Allow the attachments to dry completely before use; when in doubt about insertion attachments, use a condom on them and be sure the surface of the Sybian has been wiped down with a sterile towelette or solution. The Sybian sells a novelty-manufactured “toy cleaner” as the recommended cleaner—though it’s nothing more than dish soap with the ingredient Nonoxynol-9 (an irritating detergent that’s been shown to cause cervical abrasions when used in lubricants, and kills HIV/AIDS only in clinical settings).

If you’re not sharing your Sybian, this is less of an issue. You can just wash its attachments with soap and water for a few uses, sterilizing them completely every fourth or fifth use and being sure to follow the common sense guidelines for sex toys and anal use in chapter 1. Beware of cheaply made Sybian lookalikes that have poorly made attachments (typically unhygienic jelly rubber) and a motor that burns out or can’t withstand regular use. The legitimate Sybian model comes with a five-year warranty, the shipping is discreet, and the company has a good privacy policy—but at more than a thousand dollars for a complete Sybian package with attachments, it’s an investment that should come with some kind of guarantee.


Roll Your Own Sex Machines?

Whether you want to save money or make your dream machine, building your own fuck machine is no small project. You’ll need a basic knowledge of mechanics and motors, skill with household wiring, and familiarity with aspects of sex toys such as how they deliver pleasure to the user and how you can keep everything on them clean.


Ways Two Can Play on a Sex Machine

• Watch porn together while using the machine.

• Just watch your lover have fun with the machine.

• One receives oral sex (standing in front) while the other rides.

• Take turns with the controls.

• One rides, the other fondles and plays with the rider.

• Get kinky: The rider gets handcuffed, or arms are bound.

• Blindfold the rider and surprise them with squeezes, spanks, feathers, or more.


So the Sybian is popular, even though it is somewhat clunky, and the claims about women and orgasm on the company’s website are a little dated…but does it work? Most certainly. The Sybian is a swingers’ party favor and a porn star for a good reason: It delivers strong, consistent stimulation; it’s easily controllable by the user for getting “just right” stimulation at precisely the right times; and it’s comfortable to sit on. It’s often seen in female masturbation porn films where the orgasms (for once) are authentic. The Sybian has a well-earned reputation for excellent G-spot stimulation and for producing terrific results in female ejaculation. For couples, the Sybian offers lots of play options, most notably in situations where one player just wants to watch, where lovers want to trade use of the controls, or where the rider wants to perform oral sex on their lover while riding. In power exchange scenarios, the machine can be used as an instrument of both pleasure and punishment, when one of the partners is “made” to stay on the machine.

The Sybian company also sells a sex machine for men called the Venus 2000, an electricity-powered stroker with variable speed vibration and stroke controls. It’s basically an 11-pound black box that the penis goes into, where inside it’s surrounded by a rubber liner and machinery that tugs, sucks, strokes, and vibrates the penis. There are some pretty funny claims on the website about how the machine creates erections, “trains” against premature ejaculation, and “Maintains Penial Health” (sic), which should all be taken with a good-natured grain of salt. A variety of inserts and attachments is available.




This book rocks. Violet Blue is one of my favorite non-fiction (and fiction too) sex writers. She tells it like it is and you end up learning a whole lot more coming out (no pun intended) than you did when you started. This book is perfect for those who may not be experienced in sex toys and are looking for a good reference guide to bring them up to speed. It covers all kinds of things…machines, anal play, BDSM, vibrators and more. A wonderful addition to my library! I was particularly interested in the sex machine entries. I had heard about the Sybian and the wonderful folks at Cleis graciously sent me the book and also sent over an excerpt for the tour.

Here is a chapter listing for all you curious types:

1. Basic Models and Care and Feeding of Your Toys

2. First Time Toys and Gifts

3. Come Together

4. Kinky Toys for Two

5. Stap-Ons and Bend Over Boyfriend

6. Teledildonic Toys: Online Sex for Two

7. Sex Machines

8. Exotic Sex Toys

9. Sex Furniture

10. Shop Smart and Recommended Resources

So, you can see there is a ton of great information and some helpful illustrations to get adventurous couple started on a happier toy box. The voice of the book is light and fun and very informative. I love the ideas at the end of some of the chapters and on page 28 there is a great chart that tells you what you need for which particular thing. Very good advice for the novice or someone who is trying to find out more about bedroom sports.  If you have ever wanted a non-threatening guide to getting your kink on, then this is the resource you need to have. A lot of sexiness crammed into 140 pages.

Overall, I found this book to be well written and wonderfully informative. I think I may have even learned a thing or two! *wink* Violet has done it again and I now have a great resource that will live on my bookshelf forever! Now we just need the coffee table version! lol.